"Embracing Intimidation in Romantic Connections: The Preference for Limiting Bond Development Among Young Individuals"
In the ever-evolving landscape of modern relationships, a new trend called "shreking" has emerged, particularly among the younger generation, known as Zoomers, aged 20-25. This phenomenon, named after the ogre Shrek from the animated film, sees individuals choosing romantic partners who may be perceived as less attractive or intelligent.
According to Olga Yuryeva, an associate professor at the Department of "Sociology and Political Science" of PNIPIU, this trend is driven by the hope that the partner will be more loving and accepting. However, the roots of "shreking" can be traced back to long-known psychological mechanisms, such as Alfred Adler's inferiority complex and the desire to avoid pain from possible rejection by an "ideal" partner.
The limited candidate pool or deep-seated psychological problems could be factors driving people towards "shreking." Every eighth person worldwide is said to have mental health issues, according to doctors, which might influence their choices in relationships.
Interestingly, visual similarity plays a significant role in building successful relationships due to the 'self-other' recognition mechanism. Choosing a partner who looks similar can increase trust and a sense of security, which could be a factor in the "shreking" trend.
However, it's important to note that sustainable connections are formed only with shared motivation and common life values. Unions formed based on "shreking" often form on the principle of matching psychopathologies, where people with unhealed emotional wounds often find each other, creating a strong but painful bond where the main "glue" is not love and respect, but shared pain and destructive behavioral patterns.
The lack of psychological closeness was a factor in the failure of high-profile relationships, such as that between Prince Charles and Princess Diana. In such relationships, one partner may control the other through guilt and pressure, while the other conforms due to self-doubt and lack of assertion of personal boundaries.
"Swiping" can mask potential issues in a relationship, making it difficult to discern compatibility and long-term potential. The freedom of choice can make modern people unhappy, as explained by a professor, as the pursuit of perfection can lead to disappointment and dissatisfaction.
This trend is a protest against accepted values and a challenge to society's "ideals" of beauty and success. It represents a shift in the way younger generations view relationships, embracing diversity and acceptance of external imperfections.
As the "shreking" trend continues to evolve, it's essential to consider its implications on modern relationships and mental health. Understanding the psychological factors driving this phenomenon can help individuals make more informed choices and foster healthier, sustainable relationships.
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