Online user's date raises concern: "What's with him recalling everything I post online?"
In the world of online dating, it's not uncommon for individuals to scrutinise potential matches' social media profiles as a form of due diligence. However, a recent case involving a user named u/Janelizzy has shed light on the darker side of this practice.
u/Janelizzy found herself in an unusual situation when a man she was chatting with began to correct her statements based on his memory of her social media posts. This man, who had memorised every single thing she posted online, started to interrogate her during their conversations, a behaviour that later became a series of red flags.
The man's actions escalated when he accused u/Janelizzy of being on a date based on a photo of her cousin's arm. His behaviour became increasingly aggressive when she declined to share her hotel details for an upcoming trip, becoming almost yelling in his demands.
The man's actions fit the clinical definition of stalking, involving a series of repeated, unwanted intrusions into a person's life. His behaviour also aligns with the definition of cyberstalking, as it aimed to "scare, humiliate, coerce or control someone."
Remembering details from a person's social media feed can feel flattering, but in this case, it was used as a tool to manipulate and intimidate. The man's behaviour towards u/Janelizzy is a stark reminder of the fine line between being attentive and keeping a detailed record of someone's digital activities.
Victims of cyber harassment, like u/Janelizzy, can experience severe mental health impacts and often require assertive intervention to cease. It's crucial for online platforms to implement strict policies against such behaviour and for users to be aware of the signs of cyberstalking to protect themselves.
u/Janelizzy's story serves as a cautionary tale in the digital age, where our online presence can sometimes be as important as our offline one. It highlights the need for vigilance and the importance of respecting boundaries in the digital world.
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