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The reason behind "Behavior" children intentionally undermining themselves is uncovered.

Reasoning Behind Self-Sabotage in Children Exhibiting Troublesome Behaviors

Reason Behind Children Exhibiting Self-Sabotaging Behaviors
Reason Behind Children Exhibiting Self-Sabotaging Behaviors

The reason behind "Behavior" children intentionally undermining themselves is uncovered.

In a world where every child strives for success, some face unique challenges that make this journey more complex. This article aims to shed light on the struggles faced by children with behavioral issues and the support systems available to them.

Children with behavioral issues often find themselves in a state of discomfort with change and the unknown, fearing success due to its association with change. This fear can lead to self-sabotage, a puzzling phenomenon that leaves parents and professionals baffled.

In Germany, a comprehensive network of support is in place for parents of children with behavioral and mental health disorders. Specialized child psychologists, counseling centres, and psychosocial centres (PSZ) such as Plan International Deutschland e.V., BAfF e.V., PSZ Refugium Freiburg, and Mosaik Leipzig, offer therapeutic and psychosocial care. These institutions provide support for affected families, focusing on psychosocial stabilization, and cater to traumatized children and youth.

These children, often referred to as "behavior kids," significantly impact the mood of their family members. Their struggles to conform to societal norms of behavior can lead to frustration and anxiety for all involved. However, it is essential to remember that their behaviors are a manifestation of their internal struggles rather than a deliberate attempt to cause distress.

One of the most challenging aspects of working with children with behavioral issues is their inability to maintain their progress for the final stretch before reaching a goal. This pattern can be seen in various aspects of their lives, from academic achievements to personal growth. For some, chaos is comforting, and living within societal norms can induce anxiety.

Children with behavioral issues may struggle to accept love and affirmation due to issues with emotional regulation, trust, and attachment. They may fear that obeying will not bring them good things, a belief rooted in past experiences. This fear can lead to a cycle of self-destructive behavior, making it difficult for them to maintain their progress.

In one instance, a child needed six months to go two school days without physically hurting someone to reach his first reward. When the goal was decreased to half a school day, the child could only maintain his progress for 2 or 3 hours.

As we conclude, it is essential to remember the importance of empathy and understanding in supporting these children. The journey towards success may be challenging, but with the right support, these children can overcome their fears and reach their full potential.

We wish all parents of children with behavioral issues "happy parenting," a journey filled with patience, understanding, and love. If you have insights on ways to help a child with behavioral issues who self-sabotages, we invite you to share them with our community. Together, we can make a difference.

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